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Interesting, John … thanks. My frame of reference on being “cool” vs. “hot” is the difference between what I call Inside-Out vs. Outside-In. Inside-Out means I’m “cool” on my identity (it’s known, comfortable and I’m not giving effort toward finding it), so I focus my energies living it effectively in my environment. Outside-In means I’m “hot” on my identity (it’s vague and conflicted), so I expect my environment to define who I am and I waste a lot of time and energy hoping to discover who I am—but I can’t ever find it because I don’t even know what I’m looking for. “Cool” identity is better! :)

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